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Over Jill


I have been a seeker and I still am, but I stopped asking the books and the stars. And I started listening to the teaching of my soul.

~ Rumi

I am Jill, mother of a son and I live in Haarlem. Raised in a family with a stay-at-home mom, three older sisters and many bonus moms in my life. This is how I experienced the concept of Motherhood in all sorts of ways. As I got older, I found it difficult to ask for help, to choose for myself in being together and to set my limits. I often felt like I was on my own. Taking care of the other went well, but in taking care of myself I had the necessary challenges.

At the end of 2018 I gave birth to a son, Liam Samuel, a beautiful sweet man.

During the pregnancy there was a lot of change in my life; my relationship broke down, I was in a housing shortage, there were family issues and with all the pregnancy ailments I could not fully function in my work as a self-employed person. In short; a rough time. With all the turmoil in my life, it was hard to tune in to my needs, to listen to my body and what was really good for me. I was often in conflict with myself. When should I persevere and when should I rest?


The delivery did not go smoothly and the postpartum period was also intense: the recovery from the birth, combined with life as a single mother with her own company. During this intense period in my life, I experienced how I could feel extremely vulnerable and very powerful at the same time. I asked for help from the loving people around me, had a coach in the field and an incredibly good independent midwife. I received healing sessions from a shaman, did a lot of inner child work and spiritual practice.


Without all the support from my dear friends, family and the healing sessions I gave myself, I would never have been able to enjoy the magical moments in the first months with my baby.


I see every lesson in life - no matter how intense and painful - as an invitation to self-development.  Just when there is a little one who demands all my attention and I want to keep a thousand balls high at once. Right now I want to continue to feel my vulnerability and stay close to my natural state of being; my loving self.


It therefore feels like my calling to guide pregnant women, so that they can open the gate to new life in harmony and in line with the primal force of nature. This is how the concept of Mom • Me • Soul arose.


Through massages &  hypnotherapy we work with your body and it  subconscious and we can heal a lot of old pain and tension in a short time. This allows you to embark on the beautiful journey of motherhood with full confidence, with complete self-acceptance and in self-love. I am also specialized in prenatal massages and postpartum massages and I give various pregnancy courses. View my method here. Portretten-44.jpg

We are all meant to shine, as children do. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

~ Marianne Williamson


Mom • Me • Soul has a close collaboration with other specialists regarding pregnancy. Together we join forces and make the world a bit more beautiful for you and your baby.

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